Publish Date: 7/15/14 (earlier in Sweden)
Author: Fredrik Backman
A grumpy yet loveable man finds his solitary world turned on its head when a boisterous young family moves in next door.
Meet Ove. He’s a curmudgeon, the kind of man who points at people he dislikes as if they were burglars caught outside his bedroom window. He has staunch principles, strict routines, and a short fuse. People call him the bitter neighbor from hell, but must Ove be bitter just because he doesn’t walk around with a smile plastered to his face all the time?
Behind the cranky exterior there is a story and a sadness. So when one November morning a chatty young couple with two chatty young daughters move in next door and accidentally flatten Ove’s mailbox, it is the lead-in to a comical and heartwarming tale of unkempt cats, unexpected friendship, and the ancient art of backing up a U-Haul. All of which will change one cranky old man and a local residents’ association to their very foundations.
Hey all! It’s been quite a busy few months lately and my posts have really died down so I apologize! Life has been awesome but a whirlwind for sure. I’ve read so little and so sporadically that now as I sit down to update I am embarrassed to say it’s difficult to write a review on something I read so long ago. But I do have something to comment on and it’s what I’ve just finished!
A Man Called Ove is my very first Fredrik Backman and it won’t be my last. I wish that it hadn’t taken me so long to pick one of the many books I own by him off of my shelf. The book had all the feels to it! Ove is a very likable grumpy old man in my opinion. His life story had me laughing and crying in many points. I liked Ove a lot because he reminds me of my fiance and my father and late grandfather. They are all not overly friendly and not much of people people. Ove’s scheduled visits policing his neighborhood is something that reminded me of my grandfather as he was someone who believed in what was right and what was wrong. Ove had quite a few short straws drawn in his life and for the traumatic life he had, Ove was rather pleasant in my opinion.
I adored the relationship he had with Sonja. Like my fiance, father, and late grandfather, Ove simply melted for their significant other whereas others were not exactly well taken to by him.
The actual basis to the story is quite sad and had me feeling so sorry for Ove. His conversations with Sonja and his thought process was so bittersweet that it’s hard for me to give an exact feeling about how I felt about the situation. It is important to note that this sad story is not exactly for everyone and people should tread with caution who have dealt with suicide or suicidal thoughts in their own lives.
I have to comment on Fredrik Backman himself. He writes with such maturity and brings about life experiences so raw and filled with emotion that I honestly expected Backman to be a 70 year old man that has lived through some experiences himself. Although Backman’s young age does not mean that he has not lived through such profound experiences, it does speak on his maturity level profusely. He is a great writer and his writing feels as if he had been writing for ages (in a wonderful way).
I highly recommend A Man Called Ove. It has all the feels and I loved every moment of it!